Playing hard to get!

Three words ladies; Don’t. Do. It. Stop listening to all those professional women out there who think that they know what men are thinking. A degree cannot give you the insight to the fellas mind. When you play hard to get, you can push a good man away. Ladies, men’s brain really do not function the same ways women does. If you like a guy let him know. Don’t get it twisted. I mean I’m still old school and am not telling you to go out there and be the chaser but when a man comes to you and express interest, give him a chance! Give yourself a chance to get to know the man. Stop the cat and mouse games. When you play hard to get, you send a signal that screams: I’m not interested in you!

          

  When dealing with sexual tendencies and desires, you should be in control. You should quit playing hard to get when dealing with men, however, you should not get physical too soon in a relationship either. Matter of fact, you should hold off until the man is ready for a commitment. My motto as of now is “If you are not ready for a family, then you’re not ready for sex.” What happens if you get pregnant? Then he’ll suddenly change into a family man? Yeah, Right! I know some of you probable saying; “what the heck is she talking about?” All I’m saying is if he cares about getting to know you and want to make it work: he will wait! I'm no virgin but I have learn from my mistakes. (You need to be the woman with “wife potential” not a “good for now girl”). Ask a man about what a man think.  Pick the men in your life brains.